Do you often find yourself worrying that your partner might leave you, or do you fear abandonment even in a stable relationship?
Maybe you experience frequent jealousy, feeling that no matter your efforts, you're just not good enough?
Are you concerned about making even minor mistakes, fearing they could ruin everything?
Individuals with an ambivalent attachment style typically hold others in high regard but suffer from low self-esteem. They are sensitive and attuned to their partners' needs, yet they are plagued by insecurities and anxieties about their own worth in the relationship. Adults with this attachment style usually seek constant reassurance of their value and loveability.
This book is recommended if you recognize these patterns in your relationship, indicative of ambivalent attachment:
You frequently feel insecure about your partner's feelings, needing constant reassurance and fearing abandonment.
Your desire for emotional closeness can be overwhelming, causing anxiety and worry about pushing your partner away.
You experience intense emotional highs and lows in relationships, often feeling jealous and taking excessive blame for issues.
Despite craving close relationships, you may unintentionally sabotage them due to deep-seated fears and insecurities.
Can the ambivalent attachment style be changed?
Fortunately, there are methods in this manual to identify and interrupt dysfunctional patterns and cultivate new ones that are helpful and tailored to you. It is important to do this for yourself, your loved ones and, eventually, your children.
Stop that feeling of never being enough forever. Take action now.