Women would rather share a winner than be with a loser.
it becomes more difficult to establish social contacts the further into adulthood that you get. This is one reason why the this so-called sexual harassment law and culture in this country is so detrimental. People are blinded by their impulsive desire to see women as helpless, dutiful victims. You take the one place extending into adulthood where people are more likely to establish connections that lead to longer term pair-bonding and declare that it¿s a form of attack and abuse to have or to initiate a relationship. That leaves competitive, frivolous hookups at bars and on apps, which are highly unlikely to result in any long term established connections.