This is just a basic Guide that i personally wish someone would have told me about when I was first getting involved in the bdsm lifestyle. after many years of good and bad. I feel that this is a great quick run down of what to expect when coming into this lifestyle. I dont speak for everyone and this is not professional advice just my opinion on different types of people and roles her. Macochism,Sadist, Total power exchanges. I will have more detailed and longer books coming out just giving this a test drive. I hope you enjoy