A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.
Isn't celibacy hard?
People always ask me "Isn't staying celibate hard?" This is my response. "The first month was hard...The first year was hard, but now it's easy." So the real question is, "how bad do you want it?"
Becoming Celibate is like learning how to ride a bike...
Learning to ride a bike for the first time when you were a kid, was "hard" but, you didn't give up! You knew other kids were riding bikes, and you wanted to experience that "sense of freedom" of riding a bike, on your own.