I don't promote division, nor do I emphasize community. I'm pro self reliance. That said...
Neither men nor women are inherently good or evil. Those ideas are subjective and relative. Every person will exercise varying degrees of all behavior based on opportunities, consequences, character and social climate.
I've never known a decent man to withdraw as much as he deposits into the pair bonding relationship bank. Most men take an immediate net loss with the expectation of embracing, accepting and enjoying a "partner" that will financially and socially sodomize him with absolute justification and support.
Even I knew better but didn't do better as I got spermjacked and subsequently destroyed by a strong independent queen that moonlights as a perpetual victim.
The pair bonding relationship dynamic will hopefully become extinct in the western world as a disproportionate number of women have traded in their loyalty to family and community for an intimate relationship with the state and corporations.
Inside is a random opinionated list of reasons I believe men should consider being single based on personal and anecdotal situations many of us can relate to.
This is as good a time as any for men to reconsider their priorities and focus on being their best selves for themselves by their own individual definitions.