Buying this book will be the best decision you ever make.
The first question toward understanding your power to decide is to answer this question.
Do you create or do you tolerate? God created us in His image, so we are creators. Whatever you allow or "tolerate," you put your stamp of approval on it. One reason that I hate the word tolerant. You only tolerate what is bad. You enjoy what is good.
What you allow, you approve. What you have, you tolerate. What you allow you approve, what you measure gets accomplished and what you reward you get more of.