Over the last several years, the meaning of the word transgender has changed. It started with the "I am Trans" crowd. They seem to believe that transsexual, transgender, and transvestite are all the same. THEY ARE WRONG. When you try to take over 3 words with one shortened word that is what happens. It creates stereotypes. Unfortunately, some now believe that crossdressing and sex change are the same thing. This self-help book is actually a warning to the uninformed, be very careful and seek the advice of professionals particularly with children. It also serves to allow other readers of my potential ebooks to better understand this author.