Establishing Our Self-Identity is ultimately a book about how to be comfortable with yourself, and how to grow in the twenty first century, as we are surrounded by all sorts of aggressive influences on what to be and what not to be. It talks about the importance of self-identity and how we can establish and create ourselves in healthy moderated ways. The book discusses the ways in which we view ourselves, and how to makes sure that view is a positive one, encouraging readers to be both realistic and confident through the development of their self-identity.