Exhume or Heal, A Widow's Memoir, is a book about a widow's journey from the time she lost her husband to finding healing and transforming her life to find love again.
The author a widow herself, lost her husband in July of 2000, and was left with three children, the youngest was five. All this widow saw in front of her was black. Widowhood had a colour, Black, which signified crackling pain, sorrow, shattering loneliness, insurmountable grieve, worry, rejection, betrayal and hardship. The author takes you from when she bonded with her widowhood baggage, how this kept her stuck and shackled in her brokenness. The author shows that crying about the pain and loss without taking action to heal, is a self-destructive behaviour.
The book goes through the different healing therapies, learning how to forgive the past and letting go of the brokenness and bitterness. Healing and Forgiveness are continuous process, never a quick fix. She picked pick up the pieces of what was left and transformed her life. The book prepares you to get back into the dating scene again. Dating smart and becoming a love magnet are covered in this life sizzling Widow's Memoir.
This is a must-read book, as it covers all aspects of obstacles faced by the widow and how to overcome them. At the end you will come out a reinvented and stronger individual ready to start over again.