In a day when many discussions about men's and women's roles are characterized by bitter accusations, feelings of resentment, and strident demands for "rights," here is a book that addresses the topic in a spirit of love, cooperation, and mutual respect.
"Unlike the world, . . . which claims that equality is found in sameness," the author observes, "the gospel teaches us that equality is found in balance." She goes on to show that the gospel provides a perspective in which the roles of husband and wife are seen as complementary rather than as competitive or combative, and in which equality in the marriage partnership is sought not for its own sake but with the goal of living in harmony with one another and with God. Starting with the fundamental model of Adam and Eve's experience, the author explains how the triangular relationship of God, man, and woman establishes an essential interdependency in which in tandem men and women can work towards eternal life. Reminding us not to rely on hearsay or erroneous cultural traditions ("Men don't change diapers"; "Women can't handle finances"), the book includes interesting and informed discussions on the purpose and function of the priesthood, the respective stewardships of men and women, and the need to place God at the head of any marital relationship. Throughout, Jesus' life and example are seen as the epitome of the balance that both men and women should seek: "Male is not the model. Female is not the model. Righteousness is the model."
From a solid background of experience and study, the author examines the matter of interaction between LDS spouses and offers some creative suggestions and interpretations of well-known gospel themes. Her book then gently and reverently invites men and women to join hands and hearts with God in bringing about his purposes in their creation.