This is not your typical self help book. I have purposely tried to avoid psychological jargon and cute sentimental platitudes. This is more of a ' wake up and smell the coffee' approach to the real world of dating. I do not pull any punches. In my fi ght for truth, I do not fi ght like someone punching the air, but as one who writes with purpose in every sentence. This book will help you to clear away the smoke that has obscured your view and provide a clear vision for your future happiness. Think of it as the common mans guide to emotional self defense.