Now that I was 42 and we had hit a bit of sexual rut in our marriage I found my mind, and eyes, wandering. I still felt great about myself and wasn't looking for validation or anything. My self-esteem was off the charts and I was in as good a shape as my college age daughters. My older daughter was dating a college football star and a very handsome young man. I suppose it was being in our pool with the kids and seeing his athletic, young body and handsome looks that started me thinking. One day the opportunity came and I jumped all over it...in more ways than one. He turned out to be a tremendous lover and breathed new life back into me in many ways.