Eighteen years married, my fortieth birthday getting closer and closer, two teenage kids and a husband who travels a lot doesn't always make for a stellar sex life. About three years ago, I quit keeping track of when we had sex, it was pretty seldom, maybe a couple of times a month. Our sizzle' fizzled.' And then at a party, I let myself be seduced and that began it all with Phil, Jessie, Marco and Bobby and then decided to check-out a neighborhood bar that my husband told me draws a lot of college guys. Within three minutes, I had Lance, Dave, Nick and Dante drawn close around me at the bar as they took them out to show me what they had. And then I took them all home and you can come, too.