Dr. Danielle E. Feggins shares a memoir from childhood to womanhood about her personal journey of growth to self-confidence by defining her own individuality. Dr. Danielle shares her challenges in the workforceencountering racism, stereotypes, and personal bias, stemming from the workplace antagonist personality trait, "insecurity". From life challenges to life lessons, Dr. Danielle detailed rules she created to navigate life and inspires readers to define their own terms of individuality in their growth process when faced with adversity. Readers will be inspired to take inventory of their own lives by creating their own rules to fulfil the personal well-being of their "individuality"!