Please note: This is a companion version & not the original book. Sample Book Insights: #1 The problem is that five out of ten marriages end in divorce. The reason is that without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. #2 I was a child in an unhappy home. My parents divorced when I was one, and they remarried each other when I was five, but they separated again when I was in third grade. I saw and heard things that are permanently etched in my soul. #3 Sarah and Emerson's response to gifts is very different from mine. I was surprised to learn that Sarah will thank people a dozen times when something touches her deeply, while I only thanked her once. #4 I was married to Sarah in 1973 while I was completing my master's degree in communication at Wheaton Graduate School. We went to Iowa to do ministry, and I completed a master's of divinity from Dubuque Seminary.