Gone are the days of hiding a man in my closet so he doesnt get shot or for that matter-both of us. Otherwise, I wouldnt be here to talk about it. It seems like another me, another life-time. I cant believe that I led that kind of life. It was pretty hectic!. My God, married and having 3 boyfriends at the same time. It was hard keeping track. It was insanity but at the time it seemed normal. But people do grow up and get wiser, hopefully. The last 24 years of my life have been the most content and peaceful since leaving home at 21.