To understand a woman, you must also understand that she wants to be reassured and appreciated. Women like to seduce and be seduced, so you need to show her on a daily basis that her efforts are rewarded. According to personality analyses, women on average tend to be more sociable, sensitive, warm, compassionate, polite, anxious, open to aesthetics, and self-doubting.
This book "The Flowers of Female Mind" of Nehema Ade is a document that gives very interesting details about the way women think and is an excellent book to better approach your female counterpart or partner.