In seven steps this book outlines the pathway from ego to soul. They are surrender, grief work, end of rage, mutuality of effect, commitment, and becoming a peacebringer and soul person. All life is enriched from the soul base. The book outlines the importance of soul life in marriage, parenting and conflict resolution. As a bonus, the book offers a fresh view of Christian thought that might restore faith in those jaded by the narrowmindedness of much religion.