Dr. Jeff Rabuffo didn't set out to redefine the role of men in 21st Century America; he simply wanted to explore the world of boys, men and sages (us old guys). After more than four decades as a urologist and State Police physician he explains, "I have a story to tell about men, about all the stuff we do, about all the stuff that happens to us; how we cope with hardships, how we support our families and our nation; how we overcome obstacles, provide and protect." "I want to tell the story of who we are, and why we are the way we are. Men are composites of all their chemistry, their upbringing and their experiences. Men are good, wholesome people to be respected. Their humanity is being denied." "The superficiality of behavior can be modified. Men can be taught more manners-to be more polite, more civil, more passive; but you can't change who we are. You can't change our genetics, our physiology. Biology shapes us, shapes how we see the world, how we act and react. Our brains are different than the brains of women. What needs to be changed is the movement that is trying to change us."