One of the most common mistakes dumpees make is that they think they can reason with their space-deprived ex and with a little bit of confidence, willpower, and self-improvement guide their ex back into the relationship with them. But, unfortunately, dumpees usually can't do that. They don't possess the power to attract their ex back because dumpers develop negative pre-breakup thinking patterns and poor post-breakup associations that prevent them from falling back in love. The only thing that can convince dumpers to give their broken relationship another chance is the realization that they've made a terrible mistake and that the grass is greener only where they water it.
The purpose of this book is to help you:
Learn more about breakup dynamics from a psychological perspective
Understand why romantic reconciliations are out of your control
Accept the breakup and maximize your chances of romantic/personal success
Detach from your ex and lose hope
Recover and get over your ex as quickly as possible
Succeed with/without your ex or with someone else