WHY DO I FEEL HE'S USING ME?

If you're wondering whether he is using you, this book will give you the signs you should be looking out for.

If any of them ring true for you and your relationship, it's time to run. Don't walk, run and get yourself out of that toxic relationship. Like Nigerians will say; "serve him breakfast!"

Why might he be using you?

If you have a suspicion that your guy is using you, one of the first questions you might find yourself asking is: why? Why is he using me?

Unfortunately, there's no straight answer for this one. A guy might be using you for a whole range of different reasons.

Here are some of the more common ones:

i. He's only in it for sex.

Some guys simply don't want a committed relationship but are quite happy to keep coming back for sex. They might be chatting to multiple women at once.

ii. He's after the money.

Do you find yourself paying for him a lot more than he pays for you? And supporting him financially? He might just be in it for the cash boost.

iii. He's after an ego boost.

Some guys simply like to have a pretty girl hanging off their arms. It gives their ego a good boost, even if they aren't interested in a relationship.

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