Where Did I Go Wrong

No one actually knows what it feels like to be hurt unless they are being hurt. There are emotions that words can't express but we always choose to endure the hurt and sort for solutions all because of love. Right now, I know you have a thousand reasons to quit your relationship. There are lots of questions you wish could be answered and secrets you wish you know. You have tried everything possible to make things work but you have a partner who doesn't notice or appreciate your efforts. Most times you feel lonely, not loved, disappointed and rejected. In the face of all of this emotional trauma, you kept holding on and believing that everything will be alright and the sparks of love will return back in your relationship, the way it was when you first met. You often get hurt knowing that you have tried your best, you have loved your partner just like any faithful lover would do. Your partners' silence and carelessness keep breaking and widening the gap between you both. At some point, you begin to feel less concerned and live your life as though your partner doesn't exist. No more constant calls, chat, attention and care. You both start communicating like strangers. As time goes on, you lose interest and your love gradually fades away.

When you have a partner who doesn't appreciate the efforts and sacrifices you make just to protect your relationship. A partner who does not trust you but believe you are cheating, even when you are doing everything possible to please them and to let them know that there are no other persons in your life except them. You make sacrifices and when you expect appreciation it either results in fights or misunderstandings. Then you begin to ask yourself questions. You feel like you are not worthy or beautiful enough. You feel less, it gets bad to a point that you want to hear your partner say "thank you" or say a word of appreciation but to no avail. You finally give up and say to yourself, "that's the kind of person he is". You gave up the world's handsome and beautiful men and women respectively just to be with your partner. Yet they treat you lesser than you deserve. There are many people of the opposite sex who are much more handsome, beautiful, loving and caring than your partner whom are making advances to you but you choose to stick to your partner, yet they dare take you for granted. You love your partner so much that you are willing to do anything to make them happy yet, they would not appreciate and value you.

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